Lesson 2
We know what you're thinking--that it sounds almost too good to
be true that one thing and one thing only will be able to make
the difference as to whether you can stop being jealous or not.
So what is that one thing?
This one thing is-- Take responsibility for your jealous
behavior and make the commitment to heal this issue, no matter
what.
Many people "say" they want to stop being jealous but the
sad truth is that almost everyone with the issue of jealousy
will do everything but take responsibility for it and make the
commitment to healing it.
After working with hundreds of individuals and couples to help
them overcome jealousy, we can absolutely tell you one thing
about overcoming jealousy...
Without taking responsibility for having the issue and making
the commitment to healing it, the jealousy will never go away.
It will just continue to hurt like pouring salt into an open
wound until you make the decision to once and for all do
something about it.
Why Most People Don't Heal Their Jealousy and Create Closer and
More Loving Relationships Even After Knowing This Important
Secret...
There many reasons why people don't heal their jealousy
issues even though they can right now and here's one of the
biggest reasons of all...
The pain hasn't gotten bad enough.
That's right, as crazy as it sounds--for some people the pain
simply hasn't gotten bad enough or done enough damage to their
relationships for them to finally throw up their hands and say
"I've had it" and surrender and finally decide to put an end to
their misery.
Another challenge around jealousy that many people have is
that they simply don't believe that they can do anything to heal
the jealousy. They think of it as sort of a "problem that's just
a part of who they are" and think there's nothing they can do
about it.
For other people, their self esteem won't allow them to
have the love they want and they keep jealousy with them all the
time as a wedge between the pain they are experiencing now and
what they want for themselves.
There are lots of other reasons why people don't heal the
jealousy issues in their lives such as fear of changing, past
experiences with partners who have cheated on them and no
trust in their current partner. One of the biggest reasons is
that they blame someone else for their problems.
While there are many reasons why people don't heal the
issue of jealousy, the truth is that there are only two things
that determine whether you overcome jealousy or not.
We already talked about the fact that taking responsibility for
having jealousy as an issue in your life and making the
commitment is the big factor in healing it-- on the next page
we'll tell you about another thing you MUST do if you want to
overcome jealousy and put it behind you forever.
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